Moving Excitement

Things seem to have settled down where the outlaws are concerned. I've pretty much tried to avoid the situation, so maybe that's part of it. Hell, maybe they've realized that WE made this decision and WE are moving. End of story. Who knows? I don't really care as long as things calm down around here.

I've got my hands full with preparing the house to move. Thank God I'm home for the summer and have my days to get this stuff done. We've reserved the U-Haul, contacted utility companies and gathered items to take to our local Hospice House. I've got my retirement transfer papers and information on COBRA. Why in the world does my new employer make me wait until Dec. 1 to start coverage?!? Hell if I know, but we're going with COBRA until then to cover our bases.

Another thankful moment for us was realizing we'd be able to stay with my parents while we figure out where we want to live. I don't know how I'd locate a home in Texas while trying to do everything I am here in Mississippi. My folks are great- they give us our space, don't ask questions and treat us like adults. My mom is hearing impaired, so she doesn't hear half of what goes on (works to our advantage when we discuss birthday or Christmas gifts, ha). My dad works second shift, so we probably won't see him much at all. He wakes at 9 (we'll already be at work) and gets home about 12:30-1:30. I'll be in bed by then- Mark might stay up. Nevertheless, we're thankful my parents are so generous and promise not to outstay our welcome.

So, that's a quick run-down on us. We're moving to Weatherford, Texas on August 7. Once Mark gets a job we'll either find a house in Weatherford or look in Fort Worth if necessary. (Crossing my fingers he gets a job in west Fort Worth so we can stay in Weatherford!)

Update to D.R.A.M.A

Hell froze over this morning- my mother in law called an apologized for her rudeness yesterday.

This makes dinner with the family a bit more enjoyable....

Oh, the d-r-a-m-a

Seriously, I'm at a point in my life when I have SO much to be excited about, but due to the actions of my outlaws (husband's family), life isn't so fun right now. I received confirmation yesterday that I received the job back in Texas. Mark and I are so excited to move and start a life together. He still needs to find a job, but there are so many more opportunities in the DFW area that he's really looking forward to it. Also, he hates his current job (due to leadership) and is looking for a change.

So, in our excitement last night- and our desire for the outlaws not to hear word from anyone else- we decided to share the news last night. We knew his mom would throw a fit, but weren't really prepared for the fallout that would ensue. My husband started the conversation with, "We have some news to share with you, and, no, we're not pregnant." Father-in-law's response? "Good." ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!? If they only knew what we've been going through the last year...

Moving along- I'd decided in advance to let my husband handle most of the discussion. This is his family, and he knows best how to handle them. While I managed to bite my tongue for most of the discussion, I did put my two cents in a few times when I felt I was being attacked. Mother-in-law looked at me and said, "I wish I could tell you I'm happy, but I'm not." The outlaws proceeded to question everything, and a lot of it we really hadn't discussed yet since the job offer came late Thursday afternoon.

I left their house grateful to have my butt to sit on, but anxious to know what else would come of our "big announcement." Today is MIL's birthday, and Mark sent me a text early in the morning that said his mom was on a rampage. I sent him a message back that said I wasn't going to call to wish her happy birthday, but he encouraged me to do so....to make nice. Yeah, to hell with that. Here's the conversation:

*phone rings multiple times (caller ID). Answering machine picks up and MIL answers*

MIL: (cold) Hello.
ME: (cheerful) Hey, Donna. This is Molly.
MIL: (cold) Yeah.
ME: I just wanted to call and wish you a happy birthday.
MIL: (apathetic) Ok.
ME: Uh...I hope you have a great day and get to do something nice for yourself.
MIL: (yelling) This is a terrible day. Everything is disastrous!
ME: (helpful tone) What's wrong?

*click-- she hung up on me!*

A little later I spoke with Mark and found out his siblings and parents are pretty upset with our decision to move. Frankly, my husband and I made a decision about OUR life together, and it has nothing to do with his family. I certainly understand if they're upset (sad) but definitely not angry. I told my husband on our second date that I would eventually want to move back to Texas, and if he wasn't okay with that, we should stop dating. Three months later, I completed my PhD and was ready to head back. Mark was going to go with me. I found a job here in Mississippi and decided it would be smart to stay here, build trust with his family and see if our relationship really was as great as I thought. Now, two years later, we're married and looking to move, and his family acts completely surprised. Amazing.

We have family dinner tomorrow night to celebrate MIL's birthday and my husband's birthday, which is tomorrow. I'm completely dreading the event and hate my husband's birthday is overshadowed with this petty, melodramatic, childish behavior. Our anniversary is Monday, and I'm hoping the chaos doesn't carry on into next week...

Exciting stuff

It's been a while since I've posted because I've been pretty busy. Here's the recap:

Important news- I ovulated on Thursday! Still waiting for blood work to confirm, but since my temps are still up, I feel pretty good about it. I'm now 11dpo and my temps keep going up! I'm excited but trying not to get my hopes up. My husband and I decided not being pregnant right now would probably be a blessing (see below), but if it happens, we'll embrace it- of course!

Texas visit- I left Friday morning for Texas to spend time with my family. I ended up interviewing for a job while I was there, and they called the next day to ask permission to contact my current employer. Looks like we will be moving back to Texas in the next 6-8 weeks! (That'll keep me busy.)

So, now we just need to find my husband a job. He's hesitant to start looking until I have an actual offer, which will probably be by Wednesday.